You’ve met the love of your life. He or she popped the question and you’re engaged, now what?
Announce Your Engagement!
One of the first things on your to do list, is to announce the engagement. Excited phone calls to family and friends may be your first instinct, but formal engagement announcements are also a good idea.
There are several ways to announce an engagement, such as sending an announcement to a local newspaper. Mailing printed engagement announcements is another way to spread the good news. Stationary stores and bridal shops may have ideas for printed announcements or you can create your own on a home computer.
Plan an Engagement Party
A fun way to celebrate your engagement is with a party. An engagement party can range from something informal, like a backyard barbeque, to a formal sit-down dinner. Consider holding your engagement party several months before your wedding if possible.
One of the most important things to do after you’re engaged is set the date. When selecting your wedding date, consider weather conditions certain times of the year, especially if you want an outdoor reception. Give yourself enough time to plan the type wedding you want.
Decide on a Style for Your Wedding
Spend time deciding on the style of wedding your want, such as a theme wedding. Maybe you prefer something traditional, such as a formal dinner at a ballroom. Destination weddings are also popular. Deciding on the theme or type of wedding may help you select a venue.
Select Your Venue
Next, make a list of possible wedding locations. Visit venues to determine if they fit your style. Once you find a venue you like, check availability. If you’re having a hard time finding an opening at the venue of your choice, consider having your wedding on a Friday evening or Sunday. Those days of the week may be less busy than a Saturday, when many weddings are held.
Starting Scanning for Color Palettes
Once you select where you will hold your wedding and reception, decide on color schemes and start researching vendors, such as bands, florists and photographers. It may be best to make a budget ahead of time to determine what you can spend on each.
There may seem like there is still a hundred things to do, such as choosing your attendants, making a guest list and planning a honeymoon. It can get overwhelming. Stop, take a deep breath and remember to enjoy planning the celebration of one the happiest days of your life.
