by: Veronika Lazabal
There’s a new trend in bachelorette parties—one that we are absolutely crazy about. Call them FMIL friendly, upscale, or just plain classy; these despedidas are all about celebrating your last day as a single chica without any kind of Girls Gone Wild craziness.
Ready to rock your big night with style? Check out our ideas for a chic bachelorette party that’s more about decadence than debauchery:
Spa Getaways
Wedding plans are stressful! Why add to your load by spending your bachelorette party worried about corralling your tipsy bridesmaids or keeping track of your purse as you work your way through a pub crawl? Instead, consider whisking your girls away to spend an indulgent night at a fabulous spa.
Or, for the ultimate in pre-wedded bliss, bring the indulgence (and the spa!) to you. Mobile spas will set up a few yummy pampering stations around your house. Then you and your lovely ladies can work your way around the room… sipping on champagne as you’re treated to neck massages, pedicures, and hot stone aromatherapy. Ahhhh… don’t you feel more relaxed already?
Be Wild
Of course, there are those novias who crave a little craziness in their bachelorette party. If that’s you, skip the male stripper and go for something that will really get your adrenaline going instead. White water rafting, bungee jumping, jet skiing, zip lining, or rock wall climbing all make for an unforgettable fiesta with your crew. Hire a guide for the afternoon, stay hydrated and cut completely loose!
Jammie Jam
Remember those slumber parties in junior high? Recreate that vibe by having your girls come over for a decidedly grown up take on the all nighter. Have everyone wear her most fabulous pajamas—be they satin nightgowns or the flannel feetie variety—swap out the hot coca and chips for chocolate martinis and hors d’oeuvres platters, and settle in for an all night wedding movie marathon. Think Father of the Bride, Monster in Law, the Wedding Planner, and My Best Friend’s Wedding. Pillow fights are optional, but make sure to pull a couple of practical jokes on whoever falls asleep first!


